Jennifer, the
http://www.controlbooth.com/forums/what-went-wrong/ section of ControlBooth is filled with the types of stories you seek. Should you find one particularly useful, I'm sure a
PM to the OP can gain you the publication rights.
Now, if you raise the stakes to a free
Nexera Fixture, I might consider participating.
The
ETC mini flashlight I received for answering the
Dimmer Survey some years back is in good hands, though not mine; I gave it to someone more needful.