I'm also of the opinion that R119 is too diffuse for our FOH, where architectural elements interfere with a focus, thus am then fighting the flare from the diffusion, thus I stock R132 in the cove slots for as needed. When an LD asks for R119 in the Coves, I try to talk them out of it with good reasons, as ultimately I have to answer to our Artistic Director who does notice the ugly flare and will ask, and he's paying the bills.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but could you use an eyelash to prevent this spill while keeping the sufficient level of diffusion?