.................... I find working with the director in regards to set and lighting needs to be quite challenging as he never remembers what he asked for and changes things even a day or two before opening night..............
I have worked with this man before, several times. Well not the same human being, but the same man (woman
in one case). It is highly frustrating. The problem is these people are what I
call "concept" orientated but not visually adept. You tell them the "stair case is
stage right" but even though they hear it, they don't "see" it. I have found trying to get this type of director to commit early tends to simply give them more time to change their minds, multiple times. At least with scenery a rehearsal door or
stock step
unit can help to solidify the
image in their mind. Even then they will ask for changes until the set is built. If you work in film where money isno issue and deadlines are made to be set back they will change their mind even after the set is built.
When working with lighting it is even harder to get them to "see" what they are asking for and because the "thing" you provide is not a wood and steel "object" they don't understand the problems with change at the last minute. You just punch a couple buttons on the
console and it's all better, "Right?" Costumes often have the same problem, "well can you do that in blue instead?...Tomorrow night?" Fabric is not brick and morter and so must be simple to change or replace.
These "concept" people are often very creative and can be very good directors, so don't bristle too much , just learn to deal in a way that puts the least amount of stress on you, your crews and the budget. What I have done in the past is document, document, document. Don't reject their changes in a knee-jerk reaction (very hard at times, I know!!!), try to look at them as you might have if it had been the first idea instead of the most recent. Judge the change on its own merits and how will it will fit the production. Tthen weigh the costs of the change in terms of materials, labor (cost and time) stress on everyone, time available then respond to the change. If the person knows you are giving each idea a chance, they will better understand when you don't always want to make the change.
Anyway hope this helps a little.