Yeah, it is a
bit more complicated than that, depending upon the show. If you have a show that is called by someone, your gig is to take those cues as directed. period. Any notes you take should only be for your information to make
stage ID's for cues (for example) or other such helpful hints for you (not for other spots or operators that may run your spot). The safest thing for you as a new operator is to do EXACTLY what the SM calls. Nothing more, Nothing less. As boring as this may seem, that is the nature of your gig. And you won't get in trouble if something goes wrong and you were doing as you were directed. The SM could have had a bad experience with an operator F'ing up a show at some
point for one reason or another and now holds tighter control to avoid any issues. The only way to mollify someone in that state is to be a better operator/person.
That being said, taking notes for your edification will make you a better operator/technician/designer. You will grow because of what you see, how you absorb and how that translates to your craft of the day. One thing you seem to have already found out is that our biz is FULL of
Prima Donna's (at every
level) that have their way of doing things and will FREAK if you touch their
bubble. So be it. Learn to recognize the wheat from the chaff and you will be much happier. Also, learn to work with the weird people. You will not be able to get away from them completely, regardless of what
level of operation you attain. Don't press their comfort zone. You will be able to learn something, even from them.
As for
Cue Sheets. some shows have them, some not. some SM's
call the show, sometimes it is the
console operator, sometimes it is the lead
followspot/
cue caller, sometimes you will take cues on your own. Size and complexity of the show will dictate a lot of this. Just be ready for anything and you won't get surprised.
And have fun. Our gig is entertainment. It is s serious business, but it is also fun. Enjoy the work and rejoice at a job well done.